I have always been the person that trusts in others’ intentions. That what they say is what they mean. And that what you see is what you get. Why? Becuase that is who I am and I (wrongly) expect everyone else to be that transparent. It has completely bitten me in the ass EVERY SINGLE TIME.
This time, it’s a little more cloudy. We haven’t talked about what this thang is that we are in. What the desired outcome is. Whether or not he is interested in it becoming more. Which just seems a little stupid to me because, really?? Do people go into anything hoping/planning that it’s going to be a short-term thing? I mean, like, do people say “Well, she’s cute and fun so I”m going to date her until something better comes along.” Hm. When I put it that way, I can see a number of people I know saying that. Nevermind. I digress.
So I ask these 3 questions. And I promise I will only ask these things one time.
- What do you want from this?
- Do you look for something else from someone else?
- Are we solid? Promise to tell me if we’re not?
That’s it. I hope that’s not too much, but I don’t want to wonder. I don’t doubt, but I worry. I worry that I’m not pretty enough or young enough or fun enough to hold your attention or your heart.
Thank you for your honesty. Love ya.